feat: add database-backed ingredient-instruction mapping system

Implement comprehensive solution for managing ingredient-to-instruction
mappings in cooking mode. This moves from client-side state management
to persistent database storage, significantly improving reliability and
user experience.

## Key Changes

### Database & Backend
- Add IngredientInstructionMapping table with many-to-many relationship
- Implement automatic ingredient matching algorithm with smart name extraction
- Add API endpoints for mapping management (update, regenerate)
- Create migration script for existing recipes

### Frontend
- Simplify CookingMode to read-only display of stored mappings
- Add ManageIngredientMappings page with drag-and-drop editing
- Remove complex client-side state management (~200 lines)
- Add navigation between cooking mode and management interface

### Testing
- Add 11 comprehensive unit tests for ingredient matcher service
- Update integration tests with proper mocking
- All new features fully tested (24/25 API tests passing)

## Benefits
- Persistent mappings across all clients/devices
- Automatic generation on recipe import/creation
- User control via dedicated management interface
- Cleaner, more maintainable codebase

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Co-Authored-By: Claude <noreply@anthropic.com>

packages/shared/src/types.ts

@@ -39,6 +39,7 @@ export interface Ingredient {
   unit?: string;
   notes?: string;
   order: number;
+  instructions?: IngredientInstructionMapping[]; // Mapped instructions for this ingredient
 }
 
 export interface Instruction {
@@ -48,6 +49,16 @@ export interface Instruction {
   text: string;
   imageUrl?: string;
   timing?: string; // e.g., "8:00am", "After 30 minutes", "Day 2 - Morning"
+  ingredients?: IngredientInstructionMapping[]; // Mapped ingredients for this instruction
+}
+
+export interface IngredientInstructionMapping {
+  id: string;
+  ingredientId: string;
+  instructionId: string;
+  order: number; // Display order within the instruction
+  ingredient?: Ingredient; // Populated when querying from instruction
+  instruction?: Instruction; // Populated when querying from ingredient
 }
 
 export interface RecipeImportRequest {